In any event,your sexless relationship with your spouse is a questionable and highly debatable issue.Maintaining a sexless relationship with your spouse or your girl friend or boy friend is a risky

proposal.Even assuming from an ideal point of view that you are maintaining a sexless relationship with your spouse, boy or girl friend, it has got its own merits and demerits.

Considering the Pros first :-

1)Maintaining a sexless relationship with your spouse, gay or girl friend is indeed very ideal and a difficult task.You must be complimented for it.

2)When your spouse is physically unfit for sex and is suffering from a prolonged illness, it is always good to maintain a sexless relationship with your spouse.In fact when two souls meet or mutually understand each other, there is no need for sexual relationship.In some cases when your spouse is actually suffering from some heart trouble and when it is risky to have sex or beget a child, it is better to maintain a sexless relationship with your spouse.

3)Maintaining a sexless relationship with your gay or girl friend before a marriage is always good and it avoids illegal sex and illegitimate offspring.

4)When you and your spouse are mentally prepared to maintain a sexless relationship, there will not be any kind of misunderstanding between you and your spouse.You and your spouse need not worry much about your privacy nor you will have any problem of staying in any place of your choice.

5)Since you are maintaining a sexless relationship with your spouse or boy or girl friend, you need not worry about pregnancy,prenatal or post-partem medical treatment etc.In fact you are saving considerably on these accounts.

6)By maintaining a sexless relationship with your spouse, either you or your wife need not worry much about sexual disorders like dissatisfaction in sexual intercourse,pre-ejaculation, malfunctioning of sexual organs, harmonic disorders etc.Above all you and your spouse will not have any worries about having or infecting with STD or having HIV etc.

Considering the cons, they are as follows:-

1)Having sex is quite natural and it is essential to a human being.since it fulfills the sexual urge of your body,  besides providing sensual pleasure and enjoyment.Again sexual relationship stimulates your organs and your mental capacity.Just imagine getting a deep kiss from your spouse when you are about to go to office ,the result will be magical.You definitely stand to lose these advantages by maintaining a sexless relationship.

2)Maintaining a sexless relationship with your spouse may sometimes cause misunderstanding between you and your spouse, leading to extra-marital relationship between you and a third party or between your spouse and a third party.

3)Sexless relationship with your spouse may lead to utter disregard for your spouse resulting in the misunderstanding and in the irretrievable breakdown of your marriage with your spouse.

4)There is less affinity between the couples living in sexless relationship than the couples living in sexual relationship.Your spouse is just your friend and not more than that.Life is meaningless and insipid.

Considering the above said pros and cons it is always better to maintain a sexual relationship between spouses than living in sexless relationship, which is rather a dull and uninteresting episode in your life.