Many men don’t have a clue on how to get their wives in the mood for sex.

To get her in the mood, you first need to understand that the arousal response is different in men and women. Men are visual creatures and they can easily get turned on by sexy or naked body. But women are different. Women desire physical closeness when they feel loved, appreciated, cared for, desired and attractive by their partner. Or they can get turned on when they feel sensual or sexy as a female.

Knowing this, it is not difficult to understand why your wife is always not in the mood for sex. Here are some ways to make your wife become more interested in physical intimacy:

1. Tell her how much you love and cherish her. When she feels love, her desire for sex will increase.

2. Compliment her for specific things. Observe her physical beauty and compliment her. When she feel sexy, she will be inclined to have make love with you.

3. Show appreciation. When you express your gratitude for her, make sure you are specific and clear.

4. Care for her. Be considerate and kind by caring her as you did when you first were in love.

5. Help her relax. Give her a sensual massage or foot rub to relax her after a day of work. When women feel relaxed, they are more inclined to have sex.

6. Let her know she is the most important person in your life. When she feels she is important, she will respond.

7. Notice some wonderful traits of your wife and compliment them.

8. Express your love openly to let her know how much you love her.

9. Do some dirty talking. Dirty talks stimulate her mind and make her desire sex more.

10. Foreplay. When she is finally ready for sex, don’t rush for intercourse. Spend some time on foreplay to turn her on even more.

When you are trying to get your wife into the mood, you should not behave or say things solely for the purpose of sex. The line between expressing love for the sake of sex VS being open and appreciative about the relationship is a very thin line.

As long as you are honest and appreciative towards the relationship, you can increase sexual intimacy and lead a more healthy intimate relationship.